why is she still an "marin" if she divorced Tom?!
After a divorce, a woman can still legally use her husband's last name.
its a hassle to change it back? To have the same name as your kid?
I know one woman who went to court to change it back to her maiden name, but then you have to change all your info to your "new" name- such as address, social security info, bank, etc., etc. Most women keep their married names for the sake of their children.